So last night the lingerie I ordered finally came in. So after dinner I put one on and showed it off to my SO. He seemed to like it and complimented me on it a few times, but that was it. I tried to flirt and get his attention on me instead of the television. After an hour or so he went to sleep and I had some cheerios and tried not to cry.

This is the second time since my pregnant belly has gotten very obvious that this has happened. I get all dolled up, put on some sexy lingerie and he'd rather watch TV. Im not even counting the other times i would jsut randomly start flirting with him and nothing happen. We used to have sex multiple times a day, but now it's like pulling teeth to get him to sleep with me once every couple of weeks. Anytime we do have sex it happens because he wakes me up for it, and the insecure part of me wonders if that's because he was thinking or dreaming of someone else.

I don't know what to do, I'm tired of throwing myself at him and being ignored. Before the baby I had just finally come to be happy with the way I looked, and I try to be confident about my pregnant body too, but when this keeps happening I just keep feeling worse. Do I try harder, or just give up and get used to only having sex when he wakes up in the mood?