How often do you and your spouse have sex?

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I keep seeing posts saying that some are only intimate two times a month.(!#?$@?!!!) What's really average for married couples? We're into our second decade together, and if it was less than 3 or 4 times a week, I'd want to know what the problem was. Are we weird?

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Once a week or so does it for us, lol. When were not too tired or busy to do it more, we definitely take the opportunity! But we both work really hard and at the end of the day it feels nice to just curl up together and just sleeeeep.

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Not everyone wants sex all the time. My husband and I have been together 8 years and typically have sex 1 or 2 times a week. More during my fertile window or if we are on vacation. We both work a ton. Him about 60 hours per week and me about 50 so sometimes sleep is just more important. Does that have any reflection on our relationship because we don't do it everyday like we did when we were 20? Absolutely not

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We are always having sex lol 
Any chance we can

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My voting area is not one of the choices at ALL.

I am lucky if we have sex once a year. Sometimes it has gone longer.

Yes, my husband has a serious problem. But don't know what it is, he refuses to talk about sex at all, let alone what is going on with him!!!

I have brought up the issue of erectile dysfunction. But he immediately did it 5 days in row to prove he was a man.

He started this behavior when I was 25 and we had been married 5 years. At was first every 3 months and got worse from there.

I only weighed 100 lbs. I think pretty good looking (based on other guys). Worked went to school. Personal hygiene was fine. Don't see any problem there.

Later on I became ill gained weight , personal hygiene went downhill.

But since all this started well before that it wouldn't seem to be the problem.

I think he could have imbalance in his hormone levels, but he would never ever talk to a doctor about this.

What is funny though is is a really great lover. He has eventually completely stopped pleasuring me when we do have sex.

We have been married for 33 years. We are good FRIENDS do a lot together. He is very affectionate with me. I love him.

I have thought about divorcing him quite a bit. Can't imagine going through this for another 40 years.

But so far still love him and can't bear the thought of living with out him.

So far I have continued to stay.

So if you are only having sex every other day don't worry about it. It could be a lot worse.

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Now that I'm pregnant we don't have sex that often either because im uncomfortable, achy, beyond nauseas or have a horrible migraine or sinus headache. I'd say like once every week or every other week😕

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We could have sex every day for three or four days in a row and then like about 10 days without sex at all. And now I'm pregnant (4 weeks only) and have some issues, just need to be calm and we haven's sex for 13 days now and I think we should wait wat to longer.

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We don't have sex as often now because I'm pregnant and high risk but when we do it's better than it was when we were having it often.

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At the beginning of my relationship i wanted it almost everyday or even 3 times a day nd my bf didnt. We have been together 5 years and have had sex regularly. Now i dont want it as much and he wants it everyday. We dont seem to be in sync because i always want it when he doesnt and he always wants it when i dont but we compromise so we both are happy. Some nights its just a quickie to get it done with but overall most of the time we both really enjoy it regardless if we wanted it or not because we really do try to please each other.

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Me and my DH get 3 days together a week for only a few hrs a day, so we make the most of it. Lol He works on the road Mon-Fri and I work 12 hr shifts Fri-Sun

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We usually only have sex 6 times a month. So my option wasn't on here.. He works away two weeks and is home two weeks. That's our norm. Which were both fine with.

How often do you and your spouse have sex?

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