Hey ladies,

I don’t have anyone to ask so I’m hoping you can share your thoughts on this.

Me and my boyfriend are celebrating 4 years together this week. And my celebrating I mean I have no idea what we are doing. I asked him for ideas, thought about it, and still don’t know.

We have been living together for 3 years and have a good relationship, with ups and downs of course.

I would love him to surprise me or do something sweet but I don’t want to expect anything because I know if I don’t plan anything, it won’t happen. He isn’t the “surprise” type of guy but sometimes I wish we was.

Do you have any good ideas for what we could do? Do you think it’s wrong of me to wish he would do something nice to surprise me?

Lately he has been getting better on some issues he had with alcohol which caused some arguments between us.

Thanks so much (: