I bought a new dress tried it on hubby said nothing

He knew it was a dress I REALLY wanted but kept going out of stock and I FINALLY snagged one

I asked why he never compliments me

BOOM

He's like BECAUSE OF THIS RIGHT HERE YOU BITCHING AND TELLING ME WHAT I DO WRONG

I said whoa I was just asking why you don't put in the effort to make me feel good about my self, you know I have insecurities and sometimes not always I wanna hear from you I look pretty or I look good in something I do it to you ALL the time

He replied fuck this shit I AM OUT we ARE DONE pack your shit and get out!!!

SO tired of you telling me what I am doing wrong

I was confused I'm like you rather not put in the effort into our marriage and just give up because I asked you to compliment me occasionally?

He said YUP easier to give up than say words to you

I said WOW ok

last week something similar happened

I asked him Hey do you wanna pick our son up from school or want me too

BOOM

He's like I AM SOOOOOOOO SICK OF THE QUESTIONS AND YOU GRIPING ABOUT STUPID SHIT! IF YOU WANNA GET HIM GET HIM I DON'T GIVE A FUCK!! FUCK THIS I AM OUT!

I said its just a question

He replied its always a question with you and never is an actual question its so you can bitch at me fuck this we are DONE

also the other day...

I said my feelings were hurt when you called me a bitch

He said SEE everything is about YOU never about me

I said ya because I'm talking about my feelings

He replied what about MY feelings??!!!

I said IDK you were not talking about yours, I'm talking about mine

He said UH OH YOU'RE NOT GETTING ATTENTION UH OH SHE'S NOT GETTING WHAT SHE WANTS UH OH UH OH FUCK THIS SHIT WE ARE DONE!!!!!!!

Than in therapy he said he wants us

I'm lost