Worst experience @ Obgyn

Carrie

So I’m still new to Arizona and of course I need a Gyn. I’ve gone to two gyns in the same office since being here in May.. the first one told me my prolactin would cause me infertility after doing blood work and was so rude to me when I said I wanted help with having a baby and the second told me that wasn’t true and that I needed to lose weight but wanted to see me in 3 months or so to see if anything’s changed and said I didn’t need help that if I lost weight I should get pregnant. Today I came in peed in a cup and it took about 15 mins after I got into the room for her to come in and while I’m waiting I here her friends come and say hi and they’re chatting for about 5 mins and then she goes back to doing her job and loudly says “who am I seeing?” “ what am I supposed to do ?” and that made me nervous and upset... she comes in and I tell her I’m a week late and that I’ve been hurting off and on for years and no dr can tell me why my ovaries hurt so bad even with ultrasounds to see if I have cysts or anything and this gyn doesn’t even want to check and see if anything is wrong or not till I say I’m itching off and on. She even says that maybe it’s not a female problem and I should go to another dr because there is only so much she can do and starts pressing on my belly and it’s tight in some places and uncomfortable and she disregarded what I said. Tells me I’ve gained weight since she last seen me and asked what I’ve been doing and I say working and she says that’s not going to help that I need to make my heart work and she’s not being nice it’s like she’s putting me down. So then she goes to do the Elvis exam and She sticks the speculum inside way to fast and doesn’t even put lube on it.. then says i moved too fast like I have control and then goes to swab and she’s not so gentle about it and she’s taking her sweet time while the speculum is locked in place and is hurting me. She swabs and I jump and said I’m moving too fast again and I’m bleeding because of it now. Gives me a panty liner and a pad and walks out without saying she’d be back or if I was good to go after so I come out and I’m supposed to be getting my blood work and she says she doesn’t want to do it and wants me to go somewhere else to have it done when I’ve done the bloodwork there before.

I’m hurting so much right now I cried on the way home and my hubby called the hospital to make a complaint. I’m never going back there again...