Sickies steer clear!!

I’m having so much anxiety about baby being born in a couple of weeks because someone in my husbands family is almost always sick, and they still have expectations about seeing us, even when they are ill. I don’t want them coming around her even if they have a cold or just a few sniffles. We don’t see eye to eye on this. Am I crazy? Do I need to loosen up? I know she’s bound to get sick eventually but I just feel if I can prevent it, I will! Especially when she’s so tiny. What would you do? How would you talk to them about this? I’ve tried before with my first daughter and it never goes well. They tell me I only care about myself. 😳