Dont know where else to post this but im just venting. Long story short I finally got away from my abusive ex whom i have two toddlers too. The judge agreed to a 3 year pfa for me only not the kids. But i got a letter saying he filed for 50/50 legal and physical custody. And since he filed befor me and went through legal aid i now dont have a lawyer and i will be representing myself. Im crying because i know what type of father he is and how he isn't mentally prepared to handle my kids alone. Without my help. Im just probably over thinking but i dont know what else to do. I have so many screenshots from his family members since 2016-2019 messaging me because they cant find him in the middle of the night and stating how he left our daughters without telling anyone and that they are ready to call the cops. And i was so stupid to still let him get her because i was afraid of him. He was very physically and mentally abusive and would use out kids against me to get things to be his way... i just need support or prayers. Im praying the judge doesn't grant him what he wants because i know hes doing this to upset me. Anyone ever gotten things to go their way ?? Plz help im so distraught 😫😢