UK / NHS MUMS- no scan until 14 weeks!!

Ru

For any UK mums using the NHS- I’ve just my first appointment and it’s not until week 14!! I dont want to wait that long to tell everyone, but I also think I should see a heartbeat before sharing the news. Any advice? I am in London so a private scan could be an option. Would you just wait until week 14 to share? It is my first pregnancy and I am terrrrified of miscarriage, and sooo anxious to share with my family..