Let me start with I have no problems with masterbation. Beat your meat, flick your bean...whatever does it for you.

However it is super frustrating to be put off by my husband for several days and then I come home and see the lube on the side table. I asked if he had some "alone time" and his answer was "you were at work and I was in the mood".

This happens regularly and I feel bad every time I get upset...but it makes me me feel like he would rather end up with a palm full of jelly than get it on with his wife. :/