so i was giving my fiancé head because we always start sex off like that.. well he ended up cumming in less then 2 minutes of head. and i was like well okay can we have sex so i can be pleasured as well? or at least oral?

he said no. he was tired and agitated, he turns around a ways goodnight. i didn’t make him feel bad about cumming quick either, i thought it was hot that i made him cum so fast by just giving head. so i’m like okay then i’ll just use my vibrator, and i wanted him to rub my thighs and make me feel some type of way.. and he said “that’s weird. no just stop i’m going to sleep” so now i’m upset because this is annoying. he can’t have sex with me, or help me just pleasure myself.. so i try to do it on my own, and start thinking sexy things.. so of course he starts bitching, telling me i’m thinking about other men and fucking them (we’ve been together for almost 4 years and i’ve never cheated on him or even thought ab it tbh). so that just killed my whole mood, so i just stop and he starts saying “oh, you stopped because i’m right” and “you’re so annoying. you think you always have to orgasm everytime we have any sexual intercourse”. i just feel like we’re not sexually compatible.. i’ve had to compromise and have plain sex because he’s not the kinky type, and he doesn’t like smacking my ass or doing anything new and sexy. it’s always cowgirl, or doggy style. i want to try crazy things, and be wild in bed. but it’s just plain, simple, 3 minute sex and then it’s done. no round two, no love afterward. just go clean up, put your clothes on, and move forward. idk, am i in the wrong for being upset ab this? he said i’m dumb for getting mad/upset about not being pleasured, but it’s happened 4 times in a row now.... i’m also 15 weeks pregnant and my sex drive is crazy right now. 😩