Me and my S/O have always know we wanted kids. He decided not to use condoms and I've never been one to use birth control. Well he still "pulls out" and says if I get pregnant I get pregnant nothing were doing to actually prevent it. We've been living together for a year since I've been kicked out. We both have crazy good jobs but he said he wants to wait. Any way to convice him we should start trying and no longer "pull out"?