Omg 😳 update at the bottom
Ok, let me start off my saying we been together for 6 years. Ok! So yesterday i found out the real reason that my inlaw (mother) dont like me.. ya ready.. ya ready.. ok its because im light skinned.. this isnt a joke.. from the sec that me and my hunny got together they would stay talking shit about me.. and bring me down.. everytime my hunny would call them. Somehow my name was brought up and the trash talking would start.. after a few times my hunny got fed up and stood up for me.. they even stop talk for almost a year. They got mad when we got engaged.. they told him i was a mistake and that i was going to ruin his life.. so we got married in secret and didnt tell them.. well we got tired of keeping that secret and told them and they were pissed.. and all but then they came around.. or so i thought.. we always lived in different states.. so i never saw them.. well we moved into the sams state and we visit Alot more.. but every time i go over to their house..i kept getting this vibe..from his mom.. so after a while i stop going.. Family events i would go but i would stay by the kids.. anything to not see her.. well ofc that started the a big fight with my hunny. And i told him straight up how i felt and he told me i was crazy. Soo this morning we to my in laws.. and we are all sitting down and i ask his mon. Why dont u like me.. she looks shocked at first. And then she said. “I dont like u because your black”. ( im not black, im Puerto Rican and im light skinned) started laughing cuz i thought she was playing.. until i looked at her and she was dead serious. And i stood there in so much shock. My mouth dropped and everything. My husband didnt say anything.. i didnt.. everybody was quite for like 3-5 mins.. i got up.. and i left..
update.
After i left i turn off my phone cuz i need to process it. I went back home 2/3 hours later and my hunny hug me and said sorry. He didn’t notice it. He thought that she was being a typical mom where she thinks nobody is good enough for her son.thru out high school all he dated was Hispanics. So I understand where he didnt see it.. He told me that he is cutting his mom out of hi life. I told him not to cuz at the end of the day im still Replaceable and his mom isnt. I never wanted that. He said he didn’t care because he wants a family with me And he can only imagine how she gonna treat our kids. Yesterday his sister came over and had a long conversation with him about not talking to their mom. And how he was stupid for basically choosing me over her.. and all this shit. So it went from just his mom not liking me to basically his whole family.. and we signed a 2 year lease on this house so its not like we can just up and move.. u know..
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