Non diagnosed bipolar

I'm pretty confident that my boyfriend is bipolar. I have never seen someone got from one motion to another so fast in my life. One moment he's so happy the next you would assume the world was coming to an end. He hates the doctor and refuses to go, and he won't take medicine if her were giving a prescription. We just signed a lease to a new home. We have gotten really behind on laundry and he refuses to do anything until I all by myself take care of the laundry. Instead of helping me he had an angry episode and decided to just sleep on the couch and let me handle it. Our 10 month old is heavy to me let alone a couch. He is the one who has people with trucks. I have a small 2 door car. I just don't know what to do. This is a picture of just one room.