Unwanted Roomates

Laura

I will be 30 weeks pregnant Saturday. My husband and I are expecting our second child, a baby boy. I'm currently a SAHM. We live with my husband's parents, his brother and 3 kids, and more recently my brother-in-law's new gf and 10 year old daughter. Everything was fine before my husband's brother (without consent from his parents) brought those two to live here. I literally do not like them. It's obvious my brother-in-law's new gf is up to no good. She comes and goes as she likes, makes no contribution to the household, and expects my mother-in-law to pick up her child from school. She looks like a drug addict and possibly sells her body (rumour). Her daughter his rude, bossy, and just obnoxious. I do most of the housework, admittedly I do get lazy, but when I clean I sweep, mop, and vacuum. My brother-in-law's gf does the bare minimum. They use everything without asking, even stuff that is for personal use ( like my face wash, toothpaste, and possibly my deodorant). I have started to hide my stuff. My husband works 3 jobs, a full-time job as a county firefighter, part-time as a city firefighter, and at our local Advance Autoparts store. He helps his parents pay household bills, our personal bills, and provide for not only for our daughter and I, but for our niece and two nephews ( brother-in-law just started working since being released from prison). We have had his children since last December, due to their mother unable to care for them. I'm not interested in more drama that is inevitably coming with my brother-in-law's gf. She has an arrest record and is insanely jealous of my brother-in-law's ex and mother of his children. My worst fear is that due to who my brother-in-law's gf is and what she may be doing, that DFCS will end up on our doorstep. My daughter, my soon to be born son, niece, and nephews are my world and I can't have that.