MOH advice / Drama

Guys I don’t know what to say to the bride. I’m the MOH for my friend jasmines wedding in December

The whole issue is that I feel like the bride is competing with her friends Valerie’s wedding. It started when Jasmine got engaged and a couple of days later when the date was set Valerie dm’d jasmine and asked when the wedding was. Info about the was shared. 30 minutes later Valerie posted that her wedding (tbh she wasn’t engaged until 30 mins until she asked jasmine the info) was going to be on the day before jasmines. Needless to say jasmine was pissed about it.

Jasmine even made a passive aggressive post about it 😒

Anyways fast forward almost 2 months before jasmines wedding I get a text asking “should I have a bridal shower ... Valerie is having one” I haven’t responded yet. As the MOH I planned the bachelorette party , schedule for the day of , decorating and whatnot. It’s just the drama is ugh.

Edit : All through the planning process she has talked nonstop about what Valerie is doing and wants to always be I guess a step ahead Or outdo Valerie. Also originally the bride did not want a bridal shower, just a bachelorette get together with her family go to the spa, hair salon and brunch. That’s what she planned so I already sent out Save the dates for the get together for the ladies. That day is also when we go up to the venue to decorate. I took yalls advice and she seemed to understand