So my partner has been telling me lately that he wants to take our 3 Month old son out without me, fair enough father and son time but my issue is even when he’s home he never changes nappies, doesn’t make bottles and even when our son is unsettled he has no idea what to do, does nothing but force the dummy in his mouth even though he doesn’t want it. I told him I’ll only be comfortable with it when I see him making an effort with our son, start changing his nappies and all that, I’ll feel more comfortable when I know my son is going to be looked after in his care, I don’t want my son being not looked after properly for the day because he’s not looking after his needs. Is this fair?