does this count as cheating

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My boyfriend got nudes from another girl  and didn't tell me about it just deleted their conversation. It wasn't the first time she messaged him from what I know she's been messaging him for over a month. I found out because he sent the pics to his friend to laugh about it. He says it wasn't sexual he just thought it was funny and he didn't cheat on me. I say it was cheating because he kept it from me and didn't delete her afterwards.

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It's cheating.

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Yeah. They had to have been sexting for pictures to be there. He also hid and deleted the messages. Aaannnddd hes an asshole for sharing them to make fun of her. I really hope he doesn't do that with your pictures.

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A girl doesn’t just send “nudes” just cuz... girls usually send nudes after the guy begs for them... 
He’s not innocent here and he deleted the proof

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Yes it’s cheating. I doubt she just “randomly” sent him nudes. There had to be some sort of conversation that led to it. Plus he kept it from you and deleted the convo. 100% cheating.

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idk if i would consider it cheating, but it's definitely shady. i don't find any reason to hide something like that from your s/o. it's pretty suspicious. whenever my bf's ex texts him something weird he immediately runs over to me lol. 
sharing the pics is the part i have the biggest issue with tbh. in general, it's an asshole thing to do. in terms of legality, he could face criminal charges if the girl finds out. a lot of states would categorise it as revenge porn. even if she consented to sending the pictures to his phone, it's illegal when he distributed to someone without her consent.

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I can't decide what the boundaries in your relationship are. That's your job. You have to decide if this is cheating, not us.
I will say, guys do not send nudes of women to their friends to "laugh about it"..

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Knowing that some women get dick pictures from guys they barely know, I assume that guys get pictures from women they barely. That said the fact that he shared them with his friend makes me think that it's really not serious for him otherwise he wouldn't have shared them.

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Cheating for sure

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If you dont know about her or them to me thats cheating

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That’s cheating in my eyes. Girls don’t just send nudes for no reason. If he’s deleting it without showing you and letting you know about it. He clearly has more to hide.

does this count as cheating

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