I am super embarrassed to write this but I am wondering if I am alone and a bad person. I am having a really hard time bonding to this baby and feeling a connection. I have two kids already and never felt like this with them. This baby was not planned and I am wondering if that’s part of it? We were planning on not finding out the gender til birth but I am wondering if knowing the gender will help me feel more bonded to them? Am I the only woman feeling this way? I have no idea why I don’t feel connected to them yet. I am 14 and 2 days.