Would you stay with the man you are in love with and is the father of your child if you knew secretly he didnt want another child and you did and that he never wanted to be a father period? Let me start by saying despite how he feels he is great father and our child adores him. I just recently found this information out about how he feels inside and I have no idea what to do about it. I could leave but it would disrupt our whole life or I could stay but I don't know where we would go from here. So would you go or stay?