(I understand that this is probably a lot to read but bear with me 🤦🏻‍♀️)

So I’m 16, I’ll be 17 in a few more months. My boyfriend is 17 & turns 18 in a few more months as well. I live with my mom & my 2 siblings & my boyfriend stays here most of the time. My mom & I’s relationship is all good. We’re always bumping heads & arguing like crazy. We argue for things like her always on the phone with different men & never paying attention to me or my siblings, her not wanting to cook because shes “tired” or her “back hurts” but her back never hurts when guys wanna use her to sleep with her. We also argue over the fact that my brother & sister dont respect her but when it comes to me she’s on me way more. She doesn’t clean the stove after letting grease pop or after spilling something.

Anyways y’all get the point our bond isn’t good & it all started for when I was super young & she’s introduce me to all these different random men she’d be sleeping with. So I just wanna know if I’m wrong because my boyfriend & I had been planning to move to his house because I feel like my mother is unfit. She doubts me when it comes to school, doesn’t clean the house even when she’s home all day not doing anything, she doesn’t cook & we always have to fetch for ourselves or I always have to find out what im gonna make for my younger siblings, she doesn’t know how to spend her money because all of her priorities are fucked up & so on but it gets so disgusting living here. I don’t have the motivation to get up in the morning for school which is why I miss so many days, literally living here sucks the life out of you. What doesn’t make it any better is having depression & anxiety.

^^ that’s only a factor of what I have to deal with smh.. that was leftover Alfredo she left sitting there & now it’s molding. I’m at school almost all the time & she doesn’t have a job. There should be no reason she’s letting things get this bad...

I just need some feedback because I can’t live here anymore, my boyfriend’s mother’s boyfriend is a cop & I spoke to him about this & he told me that I could leave at 17 as long as I have a small just with just enough money to support myself which isn’t a problem at all for me 🤷🏻‍♀️.