TMI why do I get SO wet?

When I'm turned on and during sex, there is just sooo much fluid. I feel like there is an abnormal amount. My ex used to even make comments about how wet I am.

I'm married now, and my husband seems to actually enjoy it ( I guess he things that means he's doing a good job lol). I just hate how big of a mess this makes. Could there be a reason why this is? Or maybe ways to dial it back a bit?