Had my scan done today 5wk 3days 🤦🏼‍♀️

Neisha • Mommy of 4, my angel baby arrived on 5/11/2020 engaged to the love of my life 💍

Where to start smh

So I found a new OB DOC and I went for my appointment today. Anyways, went through the entire process of questions and all, first thing that threw me off is the male doctor asking to feel my breast cause he want to do a breast check idk because of all my other pregnancy no e of my doctor ask to check my breast and feel on them especially this early in pregnancy. Anyways, fast forward to the sonogram, the tech started to do my ultrasound and as soon as she found the gestational sac the doctor was like I am sorry but you loss this pregnancy there is no HEARTBEAT. He says he sees the yolk sac and the gestational sac. My motherly instinct instantly chips in which haven’t accepted than answer for one the scan wasn’t even 1 min in and he came to that conclusion, then he continues that it appears to be some abnormal chromality that ends the pregnancy🤔. 1 you have no testing done on me to come up with that conclusion you are just seeing me for the first time and on top of that immediately he wants to give me medication to bleed out HELL NO!! I asked the nurse after getting my blood draw for them to check my blood type if a urine pregnancy test was done and she said no; i asked her to do one for me and this was my result

The nurse said to me you are still early sometimes heartbeat doesnt pick up until 8 weeks DO NOT take any pill to pass out anything just wait. Knowing I just went through a stillbirth October 2017 i really don’t want to hear another bad news. Right now something rest on me heavy not to go back to this OB office. I have never seen a doctor so quick to end something he is not guaranteed of especially so early. He may be right he may be wrong but I am not taking no pill. Seeing my test have such a strong positive i am hanging on to faith that my baby is perfectly fine. If anything my test should be fading not getting stronger.