Omg love my gma in-law (both my husband and I were raised by our grandparents... but she is always trying to bring over stuff to decorate our house.

I'm a slob and have ADHD so when stuff is out I just feel the need to look at everything and never put anything away. Now that weve moved were trying to MAJORLY declutter. Were going cozy minimalist so I can concentrate on clear countertops and tabletops and avoid the masses of useless stuff.

She keeps trying to give me things, then throws shade about how our apartment is messy and now that I'm decluttering she says "you dont need to get rid of anything you just need more things to put your things into".

Shes not a hoarder she has a lovely house but I dont think she realizes that we have different organizing styles and I am NOT GOOD at keeping things put away with my ADHD and physical disability.

What's the non- terrible things that annoy you about your in laws

***also both our parents are abusive so we know in-laws can be much worse. Just meaning the quirky "first world problem" annoyances.***