me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and three months. we have a really healthy relationship and we live together. we used to have sex like once a week maybe twice. and now we only have sex like once a month and it’s usually only when we’ve been drinking.

I don’t have any interest. it’s like i’m not sexually interested but i’m not sexually interested in anybody else either. the past couple days he’s been really flirting with me and I can tell he’s hinting he wants to have sex but I just shrug him off.

I love him, but I don’t understand what is wrong with me.