So i’ve been with my boyfriend for about 6 months, recently i went through his phone and found him giving females a ton of attention (liking, commenting, snap chat convos, etc) and he saw some girl at the bar we frequent and didn’t introduce me to her (but he introduced me to EVERYONE before her so i got sketched out and that’s when i went through his phone and saw convos between him and other women and also her...

so trust has been an issue since, but he assured me it would never happen again so tonight i had a bad guy feeling and when he went to sleep something told me to check his phone and HE CHANGED HIS PASSWORD!! so now i know something’s going on but he’s a great guy this is seriously his only issue..

should i not flip out bc it’s not like he’s physically cheating he’s just messaging girls when he gets drunk?? PLZ HELP! i never felt the need to go thru anyone else’s phone i’ve dated so i’m not crazy lol i need a second opinion