relationship advice please read & comment

ok so I know most men like the chase in the relationship and I’m wondering how do I do that? like how do I make him want me??

back story- me and this guy had been talking for about a month| had first date- movies| he came over multiple times to my house and we watched movies and stuff. NO sex but I did give him head.

he got drunk and told me he seen himself with me etc but for the past week he wasn’t came over because his friends is back for fall break ?? and earlier I asked him to come over and he said he would definitely let me know and he missed me well he hasn’t opened my Snapchat for 4 hours but his Snapchat score has went up 30 points so he is on Snapchat!

so either he just hates me or he playing hard to get. ( cat and mouse )

so my question is ... can you please give me advice and how do I play cat and mouse game reverse role?? ( from my perspective/ place ?)