What not to say πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Belle❀ β€’ Finally pregnant after 11 years of infertility πŸ’–πŸ’– Due Sept 2023 with our baby girl πŸ’–πŸ’–

So.. this isnt my photo. This is however how I feel.

Being told to "never give up" is not fair.

For those who cannot conceive or cannot stay pregnant, some have no choice but to give up.

No one should be made to feel bad because they've " given up ".

We can only be strong for so long.

Nearly 8 years ago I started ttc, I've never been pregnant and in that time I've had my body prodded, poked, sliced open, had all sorts put into it.

It hasn't worked, I have truly given up.

I'm always told " what if the month you dont try could of been the month you would of got pregnant ".. not gonna happen.

"When you give up you'll definetely get pregnant!!" ... not true πŸ‘Œ

" If you give up you wont fall pregnant " .. I'm used to it!!!

No woman or man should be made to feel guilty because they cant take the mental and physical pain of having to grieve month after month, year after year for something they will never have.

For anyone out there that just can't do it anymore, it's okay.

Learn to love yourself again ❀❀

Coming to terms with childlessness is so, so hard.

It's not " giving up " as such..

Its accepting your circumstances ❀