Here we go again 😓

Well I think af arrived ... spotting started today 😓. After getting a faint line on a first response yesterday at 13dpo .. I thought this was my month finally. I guess not. I’m not using first response anymore.. idk If it was a fluke or not but this happened to me last month as well. I seen some red when I wiped and I felt my stomach drop... I will use opks again after this I’m thinking easy at home ones (I didn’t like pregmate really) I do temp but I usually snooze my alarm 5 times before I actually wake up and temp so I think that threw it off. My husband and I take one a day everyday (he forgets a lot so I try to remind him). I tried the Mucinex too. I’ve been super stressed this month so I’ll try and relax this time. I’m sorry for the long post but I was wondering if anyone could tell me what I could do better next time or even try or use? I just want my rainbow baby so bad and this is depressing ... thank you ♥️