Late late AF! Turned 38 yesterday

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Hey ladies! Bday yesterday 38 now. I have kids ages 18, 11 and 6. No period since end of August not even sure if it was regular? Nausea, weight loss, gassy all day every day! Hot flashes. Carpal tunnel (I only ever had this when prego with my last who is 6 now and it went away a few weeks after birth) No spotting or anything! Took Equate blue dye light lines no positive pinks not even on the Wal-Mart cheapies. Early menopause? WTF A July 10th ultrasound showed a had a follicle and tech said looked like ovulation coming soon at that time. I dont know what to do