Girls I’ve been having an issue and all though I have already made my decision I want to hear what you girls think.

My ex bf threw me a surprise babyshower last Saturday on the 20th. He decided to drink even though he knew about a month ago he messed up ( will explain after).

We all came home after babyshower. He drank with my brother and aunt but somewhere down the line he left I’m thinking like 430 am. My brother was sleeping already and my aunt well my aunt would cover if she had to.

He came back Sunday morning like at 10 am.

I called him at 7 am (20 times) he did not answer. At 8:34 am he sent me a picture of him getting chairs and tables yet at 730 am he said his car was packed with chairs.

Prior to that we were texting at 6 am he was downstairs I texted him because I didn’t feel good I started throwing up and he would usually go and help me . This time he didn’t. Meaning he was already gone.

4 am he went upstairs to our room looking for car keys and jacket. I asked why and he said my aunt wanted to go home I said no your not driving drunk.

So Sunday when he came back I asked to look at his phone and he texted a girl to let him know when she is free so he can plan. Girl replies where are you now? at 7:58 am

Then he replied back at OC nvm my bad .

He lied but I spoke to the girl and eventually told me the truth but I know it’s not the whole truth. He has admitted that yes he did plan on meeting up with her with bad intentions. But he didn’t end up going or has ever slept with her.

His reason is because we haven’t had sex because he doesn’t know if we can and we’ve been fighting a lot. So he was drunk and horny.

He keeps begging but I have had it with all these things that keep coming up. Especially his excuse. I have sacrificed a whole year and my body to deserve this. The fights always started with his jealousy. I just stopped being so understanding and started standing up for myself.

A month ago he got upset for no reason and left at 1 pm came back at 4 am. Drunk again . He went to strip clubs and I found two condoms in his pocket. But i am not sure if he was really at the strip clubs all day.

I am 35 weeks pregnant and I am trying to stay strong.