💯💯 Need to Vent 💯💯

Today has been one crappy day. Let me explain below 👇

Last night, my husband went out with friends. That was totally fine, as I wanted to stay home aand put the baby to bed and hopefully go to bed myself early. He messages me at 11, telling him to get a babysitter because he’s going to take me out tonight. I work it all out with my mother, and start to get excited because my husband hardly ever does stuff like this for me.

Fast forward to this morning. He sleeps in until 1030, and then we are talking, and he starts to get into Pissy mood. He had told me he was taking me somewhere tonight, and when I asked a couple of questions about it he became angry because I wasn’t just being a grateful and excited wife. I’m also dealing with a person who isgetting on my nerves, and I can’t figure out how to text them in a manner that won’t blow up, so I went to my husband for help. His response was to just fuck them, and I get upset because he’s not being helpful at all. He is getting snappy with me, and starting to cuss at me. Even when I offered to fix him a plate with the eggs and bacon I had just made, he told me that he would rather get up and make French toast on his own because he didn’t want to eat what I’d made.

I’m starting to get frustrated, and honestly a little freaked out. My husband has been arrested before for domestic violence, he has also damaged things in our home, and while I know that we are both played a role in these situations, I did not want to push him to that extreme again. He Then jumps up out of bed, and grabs clothes and start slamming doors and knocking things off the dresser, on his way to the bathroom today to take a shower. I’m crying right now, telling him to please calm down and that I was not trying to make him upset or anything. He just in return is snappy with me, cussing me out, and when I got angry and threw the dog collar that I was holding in my hand at the bathroom door, he literally punched my bathroom door in half yelling at me because I am acting like a fucking bitch.

At this point, I’m having flashbacks of the time that he was arrested, and I ended up in the hospital. I went and grabbed my son from his crib, and without saying a word got into the family car, and decided to leave without telling him. I drove to the auto parts store to get some oil because my car needs an oil change, and I got a text message from him saying that if I was not back with the car in five minutes he would report it stolen along with his missing child. I’m in disbelief, I’m so angry right now That the only thing that comes to mind to do is laugh at the stupidity. That the only thing that comes to mind to do is laugh at the stupidity. 🖕😂😳

I call him back, and tell him that I’m on my way, but he is acting distant and telling me that he doesn’t wanna argue with me that he just wants the car back because we want to get the fuck out of the house. I tried to ask him why he was so upset, and he told me that he could not do a nice jester for me without me asking questions about it. Apparently I was just supposed to say thank you so much for the surprise, I’m so excited about it. I got back, and came inside but I didn’t see him anyway. I put my son back in his crib, looked out the window and saw he was already in the car and leaving. I got back, and came inside but I didn’t see him anyway. I put my son back in his crib, looked out the window and saw he was already in the car and leaving.

I ended up getting a text message from him a little bit later, telling me what he had planned to do on a date tonight, but at the end of his message said but go ahead and fuck the crazy guy. I did apologize to him over text for having a disrespectful attitude and calling him stupid and idiotic for his outrageous behavior, but the truth is I desperately needed a break. I wanted to go out and do something fun. Now I’m laying in the guest bedroom of my house, because I don’t want to be in our bed, listening to the rain outside, and I have no clue where my husband is or what he’s doing. I had canceled the plans with my mom for babysitting my son, because my husband made it very clear to me that he is no longer going to take me out.

I just feel miserable inside, I feel misunderstood, and I feel alone. And the worst fucking part about it is, my husband is probably out getting stoned and drunk, talking about his bitch of a wife. If you made it this far, thanks for reading. You ladies are honestly the best part of my day. 👌💯