Wanting a 3rd and 4th, judgment?

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I really want 4 children. I have 2 already and know I am so so blessed to have them. I can't help but want more children though. 
I keep getting judgment from family, telling me that 2 is enough. That I should enjoy the ones I have instead of hoping for more. 
Does anyone else get this? 
It upsets me

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I am about to have baby 4! My oldest is 4.5 and I know we will not be done (we want 5-6). I get flack from my family about having “to many kids”. But seriously it’s not like I dump my kids on people and ask for handouts. I stay home with them and my husband works hard to provide for us. If you guys want more go for it!!

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I think If you are financially and physically able to care for and support them have as many children as you want! Unless your family is against more children because they know they will have to do a bulk of the childcare or that you will be relying on them or the govermnent for hand outs than they can mind their own business!

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Girl have as much babies as you want. You are the one that will be taking care of them so go for it.

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I have two, 2.5 and 6 mos. we want two more for sure. Have as many as you want, anyone not there when the baby is conceived doesn’t get a say in how many you have 😆🤷‍♀️

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I’m baking baby #5, we have 3 living. 
My mom is one of 9 so we like big families. My husbands mother makes snide comments- but that’s part of why we now see her only 2-3x a year. You do what’s right for you and your family!

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Tell them them their body, not their life, none of their business.

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I’ve got 2 beautiful boys and I feel so blessed. Would I love more children? Of course I would, if my body can and we can still give multiple children the best life than that’s what we’ll do! I hate judgement from other people, it is so irritating. I constantly get ‘oh you must be trying for a girl next’ or ‘are you only having more to get a girl’ LIKE NOOOOO. Makes me so mad, I’m having a child because I want a child - not a certain sex! We’ll be keeping the next baby a surprise so people can keep their comments to themselves. I’m already over them and I’m not even pregnant. Family think they can get away with it because they’re family but it’s just not okay.

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Baby 5 is due any minute.
As long as you have means to support, love, and care for your babies have all you want. :))￼

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Do what you feel and desire in your hearts, this is YOUR life and family.  Soo...quick story. My extended family always talks shit about one of there own family members and how she had her 3rd child and they cant afford it. Blah blah. When they talk like this infront of me I sit and nod, but in my head im thinking  you guys are disgusting. .... I lost so much respect for them. Im childless so it makes me more upset maybe
.. Putting there own judgements and ideals on someone elses life. Were talking about children, family, love, angels from god. Not which car you chose to lease. . DO YOU! But most importantly OWN IT! ❤🙏🌟

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It is very upsetting when people don’t mind their business. Ignore them and when they get no reaction from you they will stop. Do what makes you happy, you only have one life! Enjoy ur babies

Wanting a 3rd and 4th, judgment?

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