Right so I’m nearly 18 and I haven’t yet lost my virginity, I have done some other stuff but not that. I’ve been waiting for the right guy and I seriously can’t find one and right now I’m in a place in my life where I don’t think I want a boyfriend because I don’t have the time. I have a really close friend (guy friend) whom I have done some stuff with already (he broke my hymen by fingering), and we have planned to have sex (he’s been with only one girl before already), he’s been very kind and asked if I’m sure multiple times etc. I have a lot of trust in him and we’ve been friends for a long time and have said it won’t change anything between us (it has turned into more of a best friends with benefits by now). I’m just asking if this is a good idea, and also if my hymen has already been torn, should I bleed during my first time? Thank you ladies ❤️