I had a vaginal birth, no tearing or anything. I did have a precipitous labor(labor lasting less than three hours) but that’s all.

I’m am almost 6 weeks postpartum.

At my four week appt I was cleared for sex. I was checked for infections and given an ultrasound internally to check everything was going back correctly. The ultrasound was fine. But my dr did not physically look down there to check things out.

I am still uncomfortable. There’s constant pressure on my urethra/clit/ upper vaginal area. Sometimes when I sit down it feels how it feels after you have sex and are sore, like you’re sitting and your junk is swollen. When I look down there it doesn’t look right. If I squeeze all my muscles as tight as I can it almost looks normal. but other than that it’s just very open with like a wall of pink. My husband and I have tried having sex but it has been unsuccessful as my vagina literally has no grip.

I’ve been thinking about going to another dr for a second opinion..would you or am I just to worried? This is my first baby so idk what’s normal. It just doesn’t seem right to me, I excpected it to be different for awhile but not this different