Bipolar husband rant/I need help .

My husband is bipolar but refuses medication and he is literally driving me up a efing wall!!! Does anyone else have a bipolar husband HOW DO YOU DO IT.

He says that if I cared about him that I would do more research on it, I HAVE! He’ll bring up an ex well she did this and that and this like I’m seriously ready to pull my hair out of my head and kick him out of the room tonight 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I am not a bitch I am just stressed and NOTHING I SEEM TO DO IS GOOD ENOUGH OR HELPFUL.