Orgasm issue

I AM GOING CRAZY!

I’m in a relationship, it’s been about 4 months. Anyway, I’ve had the talk with my boyfriend about wanting to orgasm more during sex. I’m not usually someone who can just orgasm vaginally, but with clit stimulation it usually works. Well after the talk, I did orgasm vaginally, twice! And it’s seen “ok” since. But for the last three weeks, I haven’t been orgasming, vaginally or via clit stimulation, and I’m going f****** crazy!

I’m more so just annoyed because my boyfriend doesn’t seem to be in tune with the fact that I don’t orgasm, and when I tell him, he doesn’t make it a point to help me. I really want him to actually care about getting me off, but how do I do that?

Side note: I’ve never been in a relationship where it was a priority to make sure I got off, and I want that to change. I’ve been making myself a priority in that department, but I want us to be on the same wavelength because I see potential in our relationship long term. But honestly, sex is such a vital part of a relationship (to me anyway) that if it continues to be like this, it may not work out.