So I had the Gastric Sleeve surgery 1/2018. My husband and I are currently TTC baby #3. I had my IUD removed 10/17/19 and we have been trying ever since. Now my period was suppose to technically start 4 days ago but i also know that it can start late depending on life stresses, but im just super anxious and being impatient cause I know that if it doesnt start, I'll have to take a test in a few weeks.

We tried to conceive 4 years ago with no luck due to me being overweight and being told that I unofficially had PCOS because no matter how much sex my husband and I had, i just could not get pregnant but however that my fertility should return after losing weight. I am just scared that I once again wont be able to have a baby even though I have lost over 100+lbs in 21 months and have been trying for the last 4 years.

Now i recently had it removed and i was under the impression that i would get my period still, and it would even be early more than likely but i was allowed to start and TTC right away but i would still get the first period afterward regardless...that was 2 weeks ago almost...well here it is....4 days past the day i was technically suppose to start....and nothing...was concerned 4 years ago when i couldnt conceive cause i wasnt having periods and not I am starting to get that same doubt and its really discouraging when I work in an L&D unit and so i even see moms that are over 500-600+ lbs and are pregnant, i look at their chart and it was done without medications!

I know that if im pregnant already that its still too early to take a test, but its a little discouraging when i havent even had a natural period yet to even be able to tell if im able to ovulate.