36 weeks tomorrow and already dilated to a 5

Shaniquia

Almost 36 weeks I went to the doctor today and she said I’m already dilated to 5 and %40 effaced she put me on bed rest and sent me home has anyone else been at a 5 and stayed there for a couple weeks this is my rainbow baby I lost my son at 3 weeks old to sids in 2017 and had a miscarriage in 2018 and I’m so scared and nervous and not ready for her to come it’s to early