*2nd Update* Found messages between my boyfriend and my best friend...

*UPDATE #2* continued

I’m back with a second update. I took a couple of days to myself and spent time away from social media. The first night I spent at my cousin’s house was difficult. I couldn’t sleep and I kept thinking to myself how could the two people I cared about so much turn around and do this to me?

The following day I waited until I knew he was at work to drive over and get the rest of my stuff. On the way there, I get a message from an unrecognizable number but I ignore it until I pulled up on the driveway. Thank goodness his car wasn’t there. The message was from E. She was using her friend’s phone and said she really wanted to speak with me although she knew I hated her guts at this point.

I simply replied and told her I gave her the time of day and presented her with an opportunity to tell me everything she had to already. She obviously didn’t want to take no as an answer then sent me this:

My heart sunk and I started tearing up although I knew that day I met with her that she was most likely pregnant.

I ignore the text and go in the house to get the rest of my stuff. I go into the bedroom and see him laying on the bed!!! He jumps up and tries to grab me but I push him off of me and try to run out the door. He told me to just give him a moment to talk to me. He said he knew that if I saw his car I wouldn’t have come in so he left it at his friend’s house the night before and they took him back home.

Before he says anything else, I tell him that E is definitely pregnant and he says he already knows. He sat me down and told me that they were “talking” to each other before E even moved back here and shortly after she got her own place and settled in, they made plans to hangout whenever I was at work.

At first, it was just innocent but then she started making moves on him, hinting that she wanted something more. The very first time they had sex was in her car because they were scared of getting caught. He told me he instantly felt guilt but at the same time, he didn’t want it to end. He also told me they did it unprotected because she was on birth control. (Apparently that didn’t work in their favor)

I was trying to hold back my tears and the more he was telling me, the harder it became to listen so I politely asked him to stop. I told him that I’ve heard enough and nothing he said at that point would change my mind about leaving.

He backed off and told me that if I ever decided to give him a second chance, he would wait for me, treat me like the queen that I am and never do anything to hurt me again. I just chuckled and said that ship has sailed, buddy.

I get the rest of my stuff and told him to take care. He stands at the door begging me to take him back and said he is nothing without me. I told him no, you’re wrong. You’re now a father without me.

He starts to get emotional and as I’m trying to walk out the door, I take the key to his house off my keychain and give it back to him telling him that E may need it more than I do.

E has tried to call me multiple times from her friend’s phone so I ended up blocking that number also. I plan on getting my number changed soon so she doesn’t do this with all of her friends. I feel like so much weight has been lifted off my shoulders and even though it will take some time for me to heal, I know this is for the better.

I’m spending this weekend house hunting after work so I’m looking forward to that. My cousin and close friends have been helping me through this as well. I’m also going through all of the comments and want to thank you all for the love and encouragement. It means so much during a time like this. 💕