Acts like this after sex?

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.been together for 2 years and have been sleeping together regularly for 10 years. Every time after sex.. His mood IMMEDIATELY changes. Like after he finishes...he gets up..wipes himself off.. Usually says something funny and leaves the room. Before you say that he doesn't love me or thinks of me as a hook up.. That's not the case. We love each other alot, and our relationship is good. Ive tried telling him that i need post sex cuddles because my body is still in " nurture" mode and I would love some intimacy. My wishes just kinda go unnoticed. When i tell him to come lay back down he will say something along the lines of " i cant lay back down baby get up". I just don't get it. Can i not get a kiss or 5 minutes of laying there naked? He gets dressed immediately. Btw..we live together

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He gets up after sex? My husband legit Falls asleep after every single time 😂 
Super weird . Time to majorly speak up.

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Eh I don't think that's too weird. I'm usually the one who gets up immediately afterwards. It's not that I don't love my husband, I just don't enjoy cuddling after. Neither does he. Plus one needs to go clean up.

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Ummmmm yea..... that wouldn’t work for me. Maybe phrase it as a need. Example: I have a need to feel affection from you after sex. I need to feel you hold me and share some tender thoughts/words. If he’s not meeting your needs resentment will build. Maybe tell me that as well. Good luck!

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I like hanging out and cuddling afterwards but my wife is usually pretty antsy to clean up and get dressed so...

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Don’t say anything cheesy bc that’s what is turning him off and putting pressure on him. Just cry or make him feel how you feel by doing something. If he isn’t giving you this I know he isn’t giving you a lot more..can you live with not having 100%?

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I squeeze my legs around him and tell him "no" in a playful voice. Sometimes he will let me bask in the moment. It's never super long though, maybe a minute or two at the longest. If I'm on top it's normally longer 😀