I am 10 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend wanted to get an abortion, we ended up at planned Parenthood last weekend and I panicked and backed out because knowing myself it's not something I want to do. So now he is considering adoption and he refuses to even consider the idea of keeping our child (which was his idea by the way. He said let's make a baby, and I told him I TOLD him I was on my peak ovulation day and he was like "great!" Anyways) and so ever sense we found out he's been creeping on my phone because he can't sleep. And it's really frustrating because he's acting like an asshole and then gets upset when he reads what I said to my best friend who was in a similar situation to me. Well, I'm sorry that I am talking to her about what YOU said. Maybe consider thinking before speaking and then don't get mad at me?? He read my messages with one of our mutual friends and woke me up to ask me what I meant by saying we are keeping the baby. Like dude stop reading my texts please if you're gonna get upset. I don't see these people in person because they either live in a different state or on the other side of the state- almost 7 hours away. Plus he's depressed and apparently suicidal, and I don't know what to do because he made a comment about possibly needing to go to a mental hospital but I don't know what to do. I want him to get better, but I can't force him. And I just don't know what to do because if I say we are keeping the baby keeping it, he is going to break up with me because he just can't handle the stress. Mind you we are 22, graduating from college in May before baby is due and everything will work itself out. We've also been dating for 4 years so... I'm just so fucking frustrated and don't know what to do. I'm just so freaking lost. Thanks for listening.