Maybe a mom?

Hello all,

I need some advice ! Hubby and I have been trying to have a baby. I am currently 13 days late for my cycle . I am having negative hpts , I am having no signs of pms and the only pregnancy symptoms I experience is headaches, back aches and my feet and ankles have been a lot more swollen over the last two weeks. I am often nauseous but that’s about it. I’m not sure if I should go to the doctor and request a blood test or just maybe my body decided not to have a cycle for the month of October . This isn’t normal for me so I was hoping our efforts were being rewarded but not sure if I should be excited just yet ! I know you wonderful people aren’t doctors but maybe some advice for me