Sex chemistry

Do you guys think this can change/ grow.

My husband is so gentle with me, I want him to be rough, slap me, pull my hair, ANYTHING. He doesn’t like doing this he said he feels “wrong” I tried talking to him and so far he started pulling my hair but we like completely different things. Do you think he’ll grow to like what I like?

He doesn’t like foreplay, he doesn’t like toys, his ideal sex is dressing up for him and he just sticks it in for 20 min till he’s done. He doesn’t even kiss my body, oh and he doesn’t like making out.

He said he’s going to start pleasing me more because he wants me to be pleased but nothing has changed