Is it a deal breaker for you?

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Ladies is it a deal breaker for you in a relationship if your significant other talk to their friend every night on the phone when y’all are supposed to spend quality time together after not seeing each other all day?

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It depends. I would want my husband to talk to his best friend and have a good support system outside of me. But how long are we talking here? 30 min wouldn’t kill me, 3 hrs yes.

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Yeah if im not the priority im gone

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Yep. I went through that with my ex. Hardest thing in my life was to walk away. But a year later and I’m doing better then I could’ve imagined.

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I would first talk to him about it. He might not even know I’m upset about it. If we talk about it and he still continues to do it then yes I’d walk. Quality time is one of love languages so if he’s not respecting my time then I’ll can spend it on better things.

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I dont care if my bf is talking to people on the phone. A lot of the time I'm tired and need peace so him having a distraction works for me. However if I need him, he prioritizes me so it's not an issue. If your SO does not consider you a priority, that's an issue

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I mean for how long? The entire night? Yea, a deal breaker. An hour? Nah, they're allowed to talk to friends

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If that friend is a female? Absolutely. Huge red flag. If it’s his guy friends though you probably just need to have a conversation about balance/expectations

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I broke up with a guy for that.

Is it a deal breaker for you?

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