Found out he cheated after our pregnancy announcement dinner!!🚨 FINAL UPDATE / had to delete first part of post due to content limit

Update 1 : I decided not to react today because I know that acting off emotions isn’t strategic at all & let me tell you with all the fucking time & energy I put into this motherfucker you better believe I won’t just let him get off so easy! It’s 6pm & he comes in the door while I’m in the kitchen cooking & kisses me on the forehead he goes upstairs & hops in the shower & all I’m thinking about is just poisoning him! I know I know of course I’m not doing it but I’m very hurt but I know better than to throw my life away & lose my child over his mistakes. He comes back down & we start to eat it’s complete silence. He breaks it by saying “is there something wrong” I say “idk you tell me anything interesting happen today” he says nope he just had some business stuff to take care of before he has to go back out of town this Friday he explains that he’s trying to do all of his out of town business over the next couple of months so he can be home with me & the baby come May/June. In my head I’m thinking oh this motherfucker doesn’t even know his papers will be served within a month screw waiting until May! Anyways we finish up & he goes & sits on the couch, his phone rings & he quickly declines it following that he gets 3 texts so I ask who is that & is it an emergency he says it’s nobody & shuts off his phone. I just know him & her made up so I’m planning to reach out to her husband M privately & I will plan with him on how to confront them together. I got a strong feeling Friday he’s going on a vacation with her & not a business trip but I have no proof yet. I plan on searching his phone again very very soon I’m being careful as possible. I appreciate all the support ladies!

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- UPDATE 2; First of all I want to thank those of you who have sent comforting words to me & sympathized with me! This might sound like just another typical cheating story but I guarantee you this is a huge scandal this is hurting several people so for those just following this to get an update or tea please back off & stop saying “following” “update, update, update” without even sending condolences for this crisis. Anyways this morning I woke up around 7am feeling absolutely terrible emotionally & physically thanks to my cheating husband & my pregnancy hormones but I managed to go downstairs & sip on ginger ale & I felt a little better, he’s off today so he’s sleeping still at this time. I grabbed my phone & plopped on the couch I went on my husband’s page & found his bestfriend M we are already friends but he has his name under something else so I couldn’t find him on my page I sent him a message asking to meet for lunch later on today at 2pm to plan a surprise for my husband before he leaves “out of town” Friday. He replied instantly & said he would be there he says his trip got postponed until next Sunday so he will be able to meet today & still in town Friday. He says his wife is home & asks did I want her to come with him today I said actually not this time he’s your bestfriend you know him better let’s make it a big surprise for everyone so just tell her you’re leaving to get lunch with a coworker or something if that’s okay he said he’s down so we are meeting in a couple hours. I’m extremely nervous to break this man’s heart how mine is broken but our partners failed us they deserve to be exploited fuck letting it go they will be exposed & then I’ll be able to move forward with confidence. I have the screenshots ready to show him along with the actual photo of her number. I’ll be updating again tonight, thanks everyone.

🚨 UPDATE 3 🚨

The lunch with M went a little different than I expected. He seen the screenshots & said he was glad he finally knew who the secret man was & he’s thankful for the proof & already has their divorce papers drawn up. He said he confirmed it when he heard her in a heated argument about a month ago complaining about not having time with this guy. He thought it was someone she worked with but he hadn’t served her yet because he’s been in & out of town & their schedules are conflicting. We make plans to handle this Thursday since my husband is going “out of town” Friday & I don’t want him able to have any excuses. M gives me a big hug & apologizes he goes way back with M so he’s telling me he doesn’t know how this will go on Thursday, he’s pissed & said he seen my husband as his brother. I beg him to keep this between us so we can exploit them completely & he agrees. I will be inviting him & A over for dinner Thursday night giving my husband no last minute notice & we will confront them together then. He says he will be giving her the divorce papers & he’s having a handyman he’s close with change the locks while they’re at our place Thursday night. He said he’s angry but he’s been expecting it from her he’s more so angry at my husband which I understand because they go back 15+ years. We both want to confront them both because I want this bitch to look me in my face when I shut their whole shit down! He’s been playing her & me but she is just as guilty I have no sympathy for her. It’s going down. Update 4 will come Thursday evening. Thanks for the support ladies🖤

🚨FINAL UPDATE🚨

So we actually didn’t make it to Thursday. M reached out & told me the more he thought about everything the more he was just getting impatient & disgusted with her so we planned lunch/the confrontation today instead. I had an appointment today & my whore husband insisted on coming so I allowed him to, not for me for the baby. The appointment was about 1pm & after we left the appointment (baby is perfectly okay with a strong heartbeat of 165) I suggested we drop by this restaurant downtown by my doctor’s office (which is close to M & A’s home) & grab a bite to eat he agreed & so we headed there. On the way I texted M to make sure him & A were already there he said they had just finished placing their order & were just waiting on appetizers & so we were right on schedule. We parked & when we entered we went & got a table, the waiter took our drink orders & said he would be right back to get our food orders. 5 mins later M walks up & starts acting surprised he says “oh wow what are you guys doing on this side of town” I said we’re just leaving an appointment for the baby. He calls over A since they were still waiting on their food & her face was priceless she’s acting very jittery & I swear my hair just rose up my heart started beating out of my chest. She sits on the other side of the table with M he immediately pulls out his briefcase the divorce papers & copies of the screenshots that I had emailed him after our first lunch & sets them in the middle of the table & he calls over a different waiter that had taken their order & he tells him he wants his food to go & as A is looking at these papers she’s staring at my husband M tells her their locks will be changed tonight & so she has until then to remove her items out, he also tells my husband he is dead to him & he no longer wants him speaking to any of his family. I didn’t think he would confront them this fast but I should’ve known because he’s pissed and so am I so I didn’t care at all I’m like okay let’s do this! My husband looks at me with huge eyes she looks at me & she starts just bursting out crying she’s saying she’s so sorry she never meant for this to go this far he’s saying they are over he wants our family. I walked away outside & just started crying because it’s been building up since forever M follows me outside & I just cry on his shoulder I can’t help myself my husband comes outside telling M to get away from me & he starts telling me to talk I say “about what I seen what I had to see you told the bitch you were leaving me & our baby was an accident we got nothing to discuss besides what I will have coming to me when we get this divorce & what kind of plans we will have for you to see the baby & we can discuss that shit later” he’s still begging saying he’s sorry it’s nothing anymore & M shoved him & tells him to back off they start literally just screaming in each other’s faces & M shoved him to the wall outside the restaurant & tells him not to fucking push him & calls him out on the coward he is. I tell him that I’ve already made arrangements to stay with my mother & I am filing for legal separation immediately. My attorney advised me to separate legally until the child is born & then fully take care of the divorce & custody arrangements at one hearing since it’s going to take awhile anyway. We have signed a prenup before getting married he has several assets that we need to sit down & discuss legally so it can’t be handled right now my pregnancy is very important to me so for now I’m just leaving the house & filing for the separation. My child will see his father he will have his rights but he is no longer my husband he will not deal with me personally again ever. After M shoved him to the wall people started staring so he told me goodbye & walked me to my car I got in & pulled off. Made the whore husband catch a uber.🤷🏻‍♀️ Me & M are keeping in contact on a platonic level because we are both healing from this & he is supporting me, he said after I left A still tried pleading with him saying she has nowhere else to go & he says my ex to be put money on the table we were sitting at & left he said he didn’t even look their way. As for my soon to be ex & A they claimed they ended it completely after the lunch they had after our announcement dinner but I could care less. He’s always going to be a lying whore in my eyes. Thanks for all the wishes ladies me & my baby will be just fine. Goodbye everyone.