Hi everyone I’m new to this. My SO and I have been trying to conceive for about 8 years, no luck. I have very irregular AF’s. It’s so depressing, my SO and I had split for about 6 months, because the TTC was straining our relationship, he has met someone and about 3 months ago they did the baby dance and boom she’s 2 months. They aren’t in a relationship and her and I have a great understanding and here I am still TTC . And can’t. I finally made my first fertility appt. it’s coming Nov 20th but I just need some encouraging words I’m so sad.