Abusive man

Do they ever change? Ever??

My last relationship was about 8 months ago, it was the most toxic relationship I’ve ever been in.

Every day he’d constantly slut shame me, if I didn’t respond he’d ask me if I was too busy sucking dick. We went out clubbing one night and I was staring at this guy, nothing flirtatious whatsoever and he makes a huge scene pointing at that guy and saying I want him I leave the club and while we’re walking to the car he’s pushing me into the wall, one guy even passed us and stopped us and asked if I was okay. Another time we got into a argument (I normally like to stay quiet when I’m mad he doesn’t) I’m driving us home and since I’m not answering him he grabs my wheel and swerved it - happened on the freeway.

Another time I found stuff on his phone (we were out in public) and he grabs my phone because I wanted to leave, literally runs off with it which led me to ask strangers if I can use their phone. Later on finds me and starts socking himself in the face.

Do they ever change?

He was 26 the abuse started after a year. I left 8 months later.

I left no closure nothing, recently he’s been contacting me and I’m so angry I just want to tell him how much he destroyed me. I have so many issues because of this relationship

But would he even care???