Do I pay her?
This maybe not as debatable.. but oh well.
So basically the last weekend of July my husbands family invited us to Pismo beach. Well, Oceano Dunes to be exact. To camp out for one night to celebrate someone’s birthday.
We decided not to take our then 6 month old, because it gets FREEZING at night. We didn’t want her getting sick.
Our anniversary was august 6th, so we used it as our “getaway.”
My mom watched our baby for the day we left and obvi at night and the whole next day until we got back.
My neighbor who use to be a friend, (we got into it about a month ago and I blocked her on everything because I don’t need fakes in my life) somehow got my new number, and called me saying I owe her 20$ for watching my daughter while my husband and I were in Pismo.
Wtf? 4 months later and you bring up money? So I asked my mom if she watched her, and she said that she did on Sunday morning so she can cut someone’s hair. (My mom has a salon in the house)
So.. my question is, because my husband doesn’t want to give her any money, considering the fact it happened 4ish months ago, she could have asked when we got back.
Do we give her the money? Or basically have my mom pay her since our daughter was under her watch?
Update: when my mom got home from work today I asked if there was an agreement with money when she asked my neighbor to watch her. She said she offered her 10$ for the 10 minutes and my neighbor said “no it’s fine.” Then after that happened, I had to go out to the driveway to get some stuff out from our truck, and my neighbor came up to me and asked where her money was. & I told her that my mom said there was no agreement about money and that I’m not paying her anything 4 months later. After that she proceeded to tell me that she’s going to charge interest and that she wants 30$ by next week. Wtf?😂😂 okay. Whatever you say. I’m not going to give her shit.
I feel like she’s just trying to squeeze money out of me because when we were still friends she mentioned she was trying to move in with her brother soon. And she’s probably just trying to scrape up anything she can get for a bed, etc.
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