How do y'all make your husband interact more with your LO
My husband works 6 days a week leaves home at 6:30am and comes back at around 7:00pm I'm really thankful that I'm able to be a SAHM and take care of our daughter. But my issue is that every single day without fail once he gets home he quickly decides to chill on the couch and I completely understand that since working for long periods of times and 6 days a week is alot. He needs time to unwind but this goes on until he goes to sleep.
My only relax time is when I put our daughter to bed but besides that there's no me time.
As soon as he sees her he kisses her cheek and just sits her on his leg and that all. He doesn't talk and play with her. He's more focused on his t.v or phone and it it's really disheartening to see that.
I feel so awkward by the situation that I just ask him to give her back to me. Even on his day off is the same thing. Chilling on the couch watching TV and not spending time with her. I'm currently pregnant and our girl is super active that she decides to go upstairs and I just end up following her all over until run out of breath.
I'm starting to resent him so much. I love him to death but this is just too much on me especially with baby #2 coming on February and our girl just being 14months at that time.
I've talked to him countless of times about helping me and he says that he is going to help me more when this other is born. which I know it's total BS, He stopped help my with our girl once she reached 5 months he most likely will do the same with baby #2
I've tried everything I can think of and I honestly don't want to leave her with him when I go grocery shopping or any other time no more since he does the same thing and always tells me that our girl is "sleepy" and when I get home she's on her crib passed out and that bothers me because I know that she's on his way and that's the only way he can get some free time when I leave her with him.
I'm stressing out about this situation, I'm losing patience with him and in the end I'm doing everything by myself since I don't wanna bother him anymore and that's not how marriage should be. It has to be a mutual effort not one parent doing everything while the other just scratches their ass like nothing is happening.
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