does he care about me

so i haven't had sex that many times maybe literally just once and the first time was awful cause the guy instantly came as soon as we put it in, anyways i have a new mans and we were talking about sex and stuff, i was telling him how itd probs stretched me out and may be painful, then he said "its fine we shouldnt do it then" then whyy and said that its fine since i'll get used to it and all he said was "i dont want to hurt u" so like does he acctually care about me? and nust not into sex